You may not be in agreement with all the issues, but empathize with a wailing sound or statement such as “I feel your disappointment in my action, but do you realize that…….”
You may have a point, but the way you communicate has an effect on the way your partner conceives the information.
Seek your partner to listen to you without judging you. Psychologists recommend appreciation first in a bid to drive a point home.
Couples communicating with maturity use the appropriate tone manifested with a stable mind to face the situation.
Another communication skill for couples to practice is asking fact-finding questions or seeking explanations from their partner.
As you seek answers, be part of the question, For example, when you want to have an open chat about your partner avoiding their errands:
Communication, which is full of blames and negative thoughts, can never be fruitful. Your partner must have positive attributes.
Work together to alleviate your relationship from such traditions and do not let this hamper your peaceful communication process.